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Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2009 11:32 am
by tipereth
Are they really discriminating, or are the atheists just being dicks? I don't really care what someone personally believes in, but in my experience, atheists being 'discriminated against' really means that someone mentioned god HOW DARE THEY.

You have the right to believe anything you want, that doesn't give you the right to throw it in people's faces. A crazy bible-thumping Christian is as bad as a crazy Kabalah loving jew is as bad as a crazy dickbag athiest.

Where are you from, chris, that there is no discrimination? Fucking ranbow adventure land?

Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 7:12 am
by chris
Oh there is discrimination here alright. Norway, like most of europe, suffers from reverse racism.

Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 8:52 pm
by mAc Chaos
AA7Dragoon wrote:
Sodon wrote:
AA7Dragoon wrote: Sodon, on one hand you are alluding to some kind of "principle" stating it is a "horrible idea" to put "people" together who are attracted to one another.  What is this "principle" you speak of?  Is it a theory or philosophy of what following?  On the other hand, you're saying I completely took you out of context but refuse to clarify or state concisely your true opinions on the matter.

If someone states it is a "horrible idea" to have women mixing with men or other gay soldiers, most likely they would choose not to have such integration in the military.  If you are in support of gays in the military and women in the armed forces, then I completely confused what you said and I am sorry for it.
I will not state my true opinions, because thus far you have made it clear that any kind of disagreement with you, however slight or tangential, is enough to be slandered and insulted.

The entire point of that long post, whose message you have completely disregarded (much like my first few), is that this "principle" I put forth has nothing to do with bigotry, regardless of whether I believe it or not. Your slander of my character was both unnecessary and unfounded.

Since you refuse to understand that, I'm done.
I have not slandered you, Sodon.  If you would clarify yourself, I can explain any differences of views.  

Or you can choose to feel hurt and not try to resolve anything.  If that's easier for you.


Mucky, I understand what mAc is saying.  My question to him is it socially just to enforce this law simply because it is a rule?
Well, as far as that specific law goes, I don't know about it.  Gay marriage is one thing, but I'm not sure about this one, so I can't really argue too strong one way or another... but as far as the law in general goes, you can't just flout them because you think it doesn't promote social justice.

See, in a democratic, pluralistic society, that means that, by definition, we're going to have many groups working together to make laws, and each group has its own ideas of what "social justice" is.  That means some laws will not reflect the definition of "social justice" that one group or another may have.  But if you ignore the law just because of that then you open the door for everyone else to also ignore laws that don't pertain to THEIR definition of social justice.  What do you do then?  What if I don't like gun control laws?  Is it okay for me to start handing out assault rifles on the street?

Now, that doesn't rule out civil disobedience, because you're purposefully making a point and accepting the consequences of breaking the law to try and draw attention to the issue, rather than breaking it and expecting to get away with it, etc.

And Sodon, I don't think  you should clam up just because AA7 supposedly called you a bigot.  Yeah, he shouldn't do that, but he knows better now and, anyway, this is the freakin' internet.  Getting called a bigot is like getting a love tap.  I'm pretty sure I've gotten called things a thousand times worse and it doesn't even make me blink anymore.

The point is, if you're going to silence yourself if you get called something, all you're really doing is withdrawing from the field of battle, so to speak.  People WILL call  you names, always, so all you're doing is giving the other side uncontested dominance over the public conversation.  In fact, by acting in such a way, you will just encourage the less scrupulous to purposefully slander you to make you leave, and thus have no opposition.  What you should do is fight through the attacks and make your case anyway, not just pick up your ball and go home.

Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:24 pm
by Sodon
I have better things to do with my time than argue on the Internet, especially if the arguments are going down the "You disagree, therefore you are an X" line. I'm not saving any lives here, just wasting more of my already precious time on shit that doesn't matter.

Thanks for the offer, though.

Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:25 pm
by mAc Chaos
::) You sure seemed to have enough time before.

Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:32 pm
by Sodon
Yes. I spent a great deal of time crafting a post - to the point that I feel it explains precisely how I feel about AA7's portrayal of me - and it appears to have gone right over AA7's head (or was not carefully read). I have nothing new to add to it. If he or you are confused, feel free to review it.
Sodon wrote:
AA7Dragoon wrote:This is a convenient excuse to hide the true feelings that Sodon had no problem expressing.  The feelings being that homosexuals are not equal to heterosexuals as soldiers nor equal members of society.  

As Sodon mentioned. "Self-control doesn't have much to do with it - our biology is meant to work a certain way" so too did the Navy believe that the biology of African-Americans did not allow them to be capable navy soldiers.  This is the same bigotry, only manifested differently in a generation less backward in thinking.  

Now before you reply, you need to take into consideration that I have spent over an hour preparing this post. I take your opinions very seriously and expect any kind of rebuttal to have substance and evidence to disprove my arguments.
You will no doubt be surprised to hear my actual thoughts on the subject. However, you have not earned the privilege of hearing them. In fact, you have not earned the privilege to hear me debate with you or for you at all.

AA7, I stated in my original post that one problem with allowing homosexuals to fight with other men is that it opens up avenues of sexual attraction that may be inappropriate in combat situations. I also explicitly noted that the same problem exists with heterosexual men and women. I also referred to the biology of sexual attraction, which demands irrational behavior as part of the reproductive process. At no point did I denigrate you or even homosexuals in general. You feel I have by suggesting homosexuals may be incapable of controlling their behavior, but you must acknowledge that I also suggested heterosexuals would be equally incapable of controlling their behavior around the opposite sex - hence the frequent references to women in the military. On this principle, I was, in fact, quite fair.

If you are taking the above paragraph as an argument or defense, stop. I am simply restating my original posts in order to emphasize an important point: I did not denigrate homosexuals as a special group in society, and I did not personally attack anyone in this thread.

The same, however, can not be said of you. Your otherwise well argued post is rife with references to me, to my "true feelings" and to my "bigotry." These references have only one base: that I disagreed with you.

I balk at you now, sir, in particular because of the hypocrisy of your knee-jerk reaction. You took what is, in all likelihood, prevalent homophobia in society and military administrations and applied them to me, when I gave no evidence of such feelings at all, except that I disagreed with you. The actual content of my argument became, and has since been, irrelevant.

You have done me wrong, AA7.

It may be that I am actually, aside from this "principle" that I have my doubts about, on your side. Or I may not be. However, until you acknowledge the insult you so wrongly delivered to me, and acknowledge that, as of yet, I have given you no grounds, no "evidence," by which you may accuse me and slander me in your argument as you did, and, to be blunt, modify your post to reflect the reality of my position, you can consider me completely and ardently against you.

You do not know my true feelings. You have no right to accuse me of bigotry. And until you account for the grossly misrepresented way you took my posts, you do not get the privilege of claiming that you will take replies to your argument seriously. And you will not get a serious reply either, at least not from me.

Re: National Guard kicks out gay Asian West Point Arab interpreter officer

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 9:37 pm
by thebrowncloud
I marvel at some of the absolutely massive misunderstandings that take place on these forums. What's even more astounding is that, whenever someone tries to clear up the misunderstanding (whether they be a member of one of the parties or not), it just gets worse. I'd say that's the most unique trait this forum has. =/

Remember, everyone: If you assume, all you're doing is making an ass out of u and me.

Have a nice day!  ;D